Coaching for Leadership Development
A leader is best when people barely know he exists, when his work is done, his aim fulfilled, they will say: we did it ourselves ~ Lao Tzu
Leaders do not need to be convinced that improvement and change are crucial. Leaders today know how difficult it is to achieve sustainable change. Not only is it very difficult, we still do not know why it is so difficult and what we can do about it.
Our world needs the right leaders now more than ever. Especially in this era where there is so much at stake, not only in organisations and corporations, but also in the world.
For me leadership means taking responsibility in the world, in a passionate and selfless way.
We still often have this classic concept of the leader – whether political, religious or corporate – of being someone who stands in the front, and addresses and steers his or her troops with authority. This is only one form of leadership. You are just as much a leader when you support a group from behind or from the side, so this group can do what it needs to do (similar to the coach of a football team). Even when you are a team member you show leadership when you fully and unconditionally support the leadership of the person up front. You also take up leadership when you feel what is needed in your world and you take action, by yourself or with others.
Leadership development to me is about developing or broadening your mindset and not so much about gaining all kinds of leadership skills. Real development is about transforming the operating system, and not just expanding the knowledge base or behavioural patterns. Only then sustainable change can happen.
For this type of coaching sessions I get inspired by the work of the Arbinger Institute (The Outward Mindset, Leadership & Self-Deception, The Anatomy of Peace) and by the ‘Immunity to Change’ model of Robert Kegan and Lisa Lahey.